Is he the one?
Now that you're smiling at every man you see, flirting every man you meet and getting invited to more dates, which is great. However, beware ladies! while you are dating and making assessments of the men you meet, you gotta learn how to listen to your voice within you-your"intuition". If something is ain't right, you will know it if you listen to yourself. And same in knowing that he's the one for you too.
Sometimes it is hard for us to distinguish the men is a good guy or not. However, you can protect yourself from investing your hearts in a doomed relationship by rejecting a man as soon as you discover he is any of the following type:
(a) actively addicted to alcohol, drugs or gambling
(b) physically abusive
(c) unfaithful to you!
Those are the bad boys that you ladies should blacklist them! OK how do you know and categorize them, especially when you are just starting to date him?
True. In the first few weeks of dating or sometime within the first month, you may not know it but again, listen to your intuition and eventually you will get it. Because people reveal themselves in everything from the way they walk what they wear and the way they talk.Our friends, hangouts and habits all speak something about us. The man you are dating is no exception. It is how you pick up the clues and knowing what to expect in the future.
A friend of mine once told me that her husband was unfaithful to her and she knew it while they were dating. OK I asked her the reasons she married to him while her intuition has already raised a red flag on this man.
Then she answered me because she is afraid of being alone. Maybe she didn't realize they could never ever change such a man.
sigh....why? when you knew up front exactly what you were signing up for and yet still signing it?!
"Just trust yourself;then you will know how to live"-Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe
Cheers ladies. We love you.
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